My Pet's Place: Proud

My Pet's Place

We started in a regular man/woman vanilla relationship and through communication and exploration have decided to expand into the realm of BDSM. We looked at the different types of power exchange. Dominant/submissive, Master/slave, Daddy/littlegirl and the one that fit best was Owner/pet.

This is my pet's place. A place that I encourage her to have so that she can express her thoughts and feelings. This is also a medium that I will use to set her tasks and monitor her activities. This blog is also a reminder to my pet, of where her place is.

Proud

I am continually amazed by the amount of time and consideration you put into "us". I love the idea of you having this blog. Can not wait to see how it grows and what new thoughts you share. I am extremely proud of you my pet and proud to be your Owner. Am continually thankful we met.

I'll love you forever and a day.

Owner's Expectations

Always be mindful that he is Master and his word law.
Be aware of the responsibilities he has.
Be more assertive.
Be surprised occasionally by his pet doing something creative for him/them.
Challenge pet more often and push her limits.
Desire dominance, never forget his pet's needs and be affectionate.
Expect obedience from his pet.
Expects to be informed of all things by his pet, should not be surprised by things he does not know.
Make continued efforts to improve as a Master and learn what he can.
Take and shoulder more responsibility.
That both Owner and pet will work towards an end goal of being together.
That pet will never lose sight of the relationship despite any mood she is in.
To never be cruel or assign a punishment without cause.

Pet's Expectations

Be aware of the fact she belongs to her Owner.
Be punished and reminded if she forgets her place.
Bi-monthly checkins to reassess where we stand.
Have a "path" to walk upon which is mid-stream and accessible for all moods.
Have tasks ad rituals/routines schedule and more of them.
Increase/decrease area of the BDSM in increments.
Remain open and communicative with her owner and not hold back.
To be made to feel as a "pet" - owned, loved, appreciated, and given direction.
To be pushed more often out of her comfort zone and challenged.
To have more sexual situations and be pushed more in that regards.

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The Ground Rules

Pet is to send Owner a photo every morning or every evening via email – receiving a consequence if she does not and has no excuse Master accepts.
Pet is to ask permission before she is allowed to go out for an evening or to visit someone.
If Owner is online Pet may not engage in voice communications without permission and should ask for permission before logging on any other IM's.
Pet is only allowed to use the bathroom at: 7:30am, Noon, 3:30pm, 8pm, Midnight- If pet can not hold it she is to document the violation and receive consequence.
Pet is to continue to work on her WeightLoss Program and reducing her smoking. Owner is to always be supportive and thoughtful in these regards.
Pet is to attempt and maintain a quota of SMS messages every month. 0-50 texts results in punishment. 50-100 texts gives no reward. 101-170 texts pet gets to choose from some rewards and 170+ texts pet may pick her own reward – Owner holds the right to disapprove of a self-chosen reward.
Owner is to let his pet know every day that he “loves his pet”.
Owner must buy or send his pet something every month, whether it be helping with a bill or something special and unique.
Once received pet will only wear those undergarments which Owner buys for her.
Pet is to wear her collar permanently, only removing it when showering after which she must immediately return it to her neck.
She may NOT remove it because she is going out in public or because she is seeing a friend.

My Pet's Place

Proud

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Pet's Pager

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