My Pet's Place

We started in a regular man/woman vanilla relationship and through communication and exploration have decided to expand into the realm of BDSM. We looked at the different types of power exchange. Dominant/submissive, Master/slave, Daddy/littlegirl and the one that fit best was Owner/pet.

This is my pet's place. A place that I encourage her to have so that she can express her thoughts and feelings. This is also a medium that I will use to set her tasks and monitor her activities. This blog is also a reminder to my pet, of where her place is.

Task: Strengths and Weaknesses

Sir has set me an assignment of writing down a list of my strengths and weaknesses, divided into three categories as set by him. This isn't as easy as it first appeared, because he asked for things that I do or don't do, not personality traits, but an accountability for my actions.

Things I do well:
  • This one is hard. I have taken a long, hard look at myself and at the moment there isn't a single thing I can think of as a submissive that I do well. Perhaps I could list here that I am able to see my flaws and apologise for my shortcomings.

Things I don't think I do very well:
  • Show gratitude
  • Follow orders
  • Listen
  • Orgasm control

Things I do that I believe Sir likes:
  • Send text messages to his phone
  • Ask permission for treats and priveleges
  • Recite my mantra

Things I do that I know Sir dislikes, but I do them anyway:
  • Argue and behave aggressively
  • When angry I log off and refuse to answer my phone
  • Go out without asking permission
  • Failure to communicate my moods respectfully
Will continue to think on this and update as necessary.

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