We had discussed previously a website I discovered called The Training Of O. It's one of kink.com many sites, all parties involved are professional workers who get paid for their efforts, the theme for this one is training of submissives.
We still have 30 days before we see each other again so we thought going through the files and watching scenes by professionals would be a good source of conversation and inspiration for us both, and an interesting way to pass the time!
Today I chose one to watch that I think may prove to be the best the site has to offer. I didn't realize it at the time, but the professional Dom brought his real life girlfriend and submissive to negotiate the terms of, and to formalize their D/s relationship.
I've watched fetish porn before, faked, contrived, each actor playing their part. I don't know if this was different because the Dom and Sub have a real life relationship, but it was certainly something to watch the two of them in a scene. I identified a lot with the sub, she was being punished for masturbating without permission. By her own admission she enjoyed BDSM for the pleasure she gained out of it, rather than experiencing the pleasure of service to her Dom.
He instructed her on the difference between correction and punishment, and throughout the scene she was being punished for her disobedience. His words to her were calm and clear but never for a moment did you doubt his position of authority. At one point, when she was at the height of her suffering, she whimpered and said she was sorry, and his voice softened a little and he said "I know baby".
The playfulness she displayed was genuine, as was his desire for her, and I often caught myself smiling at the dialogue between them. Despite them being on camera it was still the most realistic scene I have watched.
I've been on the collarme forums, and watched the posturing and posing by both Doms and subs alike, and have been into a real live working dungeon and watched Doms with their subs, and still it all seems like it's for show. I don't know whether to be discouraged or encouraged. I mean I have been exposed to what felt like a genuine D/s scene... yet it wasn't one in real life, it was done by professionals on camera.
We still have 30 days before we see each other again so we thought going through the files and watching scenes by professionals would be a good source of conversation and inspiration for us both, and an interesting way to pass the time!
Today I chose one to watch that I think may prove to be the best the site has to offer. I didn't realize it at the time, but the professional Dom brought his real life girlfriend and submissive to negotiate the terms of, and to formalize their D/s relationship.
I've watched fetish porn before, faked, contrived, each actor playing their part. I don't know if this was different because the Dom and Sub have a real life relationship, but it was certainly something to watch the two of them in a scene. I identified a lot with the sub, she was being punished for masturbating without permission. By her own admission she enjoyed BDSM for the pleasure she gained out of it, rather than experiencing the pleasure of service to her Dom.
He instructed her on the difference between correction and punishment, and throughout the scene she was being punished for her disobedience. His words to her were calm and clear but never for a moment did you doubt his position of authority. At one point, when she was at the height of her suffering, she whimpered and said she was sorry, and his voice softened a little and he said "I know baby".
The playfulness she displayed was genuine, as was his desire for her, and I often caught myself smiling at the dialogue between them. Despite them being on camera it was still the most realistic scene I have watched.
I've been on the collarme forums, and watched the posturing and posing by both Doms and subs alike, and have been into a real live working dungeon and watched Doms with their subs, and still it all seems like it's for show. I don't know whether to be discouraged or encouraged. I mean I have been exposed to what felt like a genuine D/s scene... yet it wasn't one in real life, it was done by professionals on camera.
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